What if I did this every week? V1

Hey Friends! This a new thing I am going to try called “What if I did this every week?”

Remember when I had a season of a podcast and I would include things to read and look at?  Literal quote from my mother, “Why do you do that Anne?  I doubt anyone clicks.”  Thanks Mum, you the best.  Well y’all this is essentially that.  But without the podcast.  So basically things I’ve listened to, read, watched, bought, or talked about this week.  Maybe some questions I have?


First I have been reading Trouble Makers by Carla Shalaby.  I’m 1/2 through and it is outstanding. It’s a study of four students who are basically “troublemakers” in their respective classrooms.  It has me thinking about freedom and love in my classroom.  I keep coming back to the fact that just since being at DLA I have been more often telling kids I love them.  Which was NOT a thing I did my first 4 years of teaching.  Why?

I am reading it because of Val Brown‘s #ClearTheAir chat.  If you don’t have time to read the book go read and think about the chat.  Then tweet at me! I want to hear your thoughts.

I reread this old piece from Teen Vogue about the use of Black reaction gif.  Teen Vogue is doing the work y’all.

I listened to these two Podcast episodes about FX’s Pose which I intend to watch this week.  They are all different and super interesting. Still Processing, “We Chose Our Own Families“. Latino USA, “Portrait Of: 80s Ball Subculture in FX’s ‘Pose’”.

**On the recommend of a friend I listened to Nikole Hannah Jones on Why is This Happening with Chris Hayes talk about school segregation and it was deep and painful and so so real.

Maybe you should order this for your classroom? I will buy you one if you message me.


I am also reading some of my comic books from comic con! First Women’s World which I like to joke is Y: The Last Man without the last man. But really it’s much funnier and silly.  And I am in the middle of Bizarre Romance By Audrey Niffenegger (one of my all time favorites from Time Traveler’s Wife) and illustrated by her husband Eddie Campbell.  It’s weird and interesting and reminds me of Roald Dahl’s adult stuff.

I absolutely LOVE tv and although I didn’t watch much this week I read this article from the ringer about the 100 best episode of this century.  Please read it and talk to me. I SO need to discuss this!

I have been listening to Forever 35 a podcast about self care really.  This week they had Samantha Irby on and it was fantastic.  I do end it wanting to buy about $150 in skin care products.

And since I love when other people include stuff like this: I bought these shoes for the school year.  I have bought a pair each year for the last like 4 or 5 and I wear them 2-4 days a week. They go with everything.

**one thing you should most read/listen to this week

small goal for the week: read more of Troublemakers. Also, what if I do this again next week?


Stop trying to do the work in private. Screwing up in public is the best use of your privilege.

I come from a place of privilege.  I am a 9th year white teacher lady with a permanent contract and a pretty strong union.  I am also an excellent teacher with a solid track record.  This is all to say, I am not afraid of losing my job.

There is work to be done in education.  There is work to be done in this math teacher community.  There are white teachers in schools across the nation still pretending they don’t see color.  There are white teachers in schools across the nation knowing race exists but having no idea how or no avenue to address it. And there are those of us with an avenue and some idea how and a solid amount of job security.  This post is for the last group.

HELLLLLLOOOOO many of my #MTBoS friends, particularly those of you with lots of followers. Welcome to the conversation!!  There have been a lot of conversations (as always) after TMC about equity and social justice and math.  Usually those conversations fade out after a couple weeks when we all get busy with school.  When we are teaching and we decide what we “really” need to know is if anyone has a good lesson for simplifying radicals or solving complex equations. We don’t have time for critical race conversations. Well not this year friends! I refuse. I just refuse.  There are lots of good ways to do social justice work. (I love Dylan‘s and Sunil‘s stuff) but what I want to work on and come back to this year is mistakes white teachers make.

Mistakes white teachers make. That phrase is a little scary isn’t it? It hits hard.  It implies that there are things you are doing wrong that have to do with race and since it has teacher in it, it also implies that these mistakes are probably (definitely) affecting kids.

In the same way we work to make teaching mistakes public I want us to work to make our social mistakes public.  This could include: a wrong thing said to a student, a conversation with a colleague handled poorly, or a blog post or twitter exchange that we are less than proud of.  We share these things in hopes that others learn from us and that we can help each other.*

It’s hard to know exactly what this looks like and I know that. So I’m going to give two examples. The first is from Tom Rademacher he first wrote a post that ignored the experiences of people of color, then he was called on it, and so he wrote really solid public apology. You should click through and read it.

Second, here’s mine.  I messed up the other night.  I got super white and fragile. I like to think of myself as a person working for justice. I got called out on methods which I deserved and instead of taking it in I got defensive. Here we go:

I tweeted:

José nicely replied:

Y’all here’s where I get embarrassed.  I then said:

José, very nicely, didn’t call me on my white fragility but guys, it’s right there.  You can click through if you want to read the rest but José is right and kind and I come off looking like a white person without enough cookies.

I was hurt by being called out. I was scared he was right. I was being a lazy ally and I got called on it.  So publicly I want to say sorry to Jose and also hope that this stops other white teachers from snapping back before you think. Being called out is not inherently bad.  It is almost always a place from which you can look for for growth.

So this is my first post in the Mistakes White Teacher Make series.  I am hoping other bloggers will want to join and share.  Doesn’t have to be a current story but anything you look back on and know you should have done better or anything that changed you looking forward.


Lastly, if you are in that first group of white teachers who are “colorblind” or just looking for an entry point into this conversation reading Dr. Tatum’s “Why are all the black kids sitting together in the cafeteria?” is a great start AND Julie is reading it and would love to chat.


*i have been in three separate conversations about how to add a private piece to this work and i promise i will share as soon as i have the logistics there

Why white teachers don’t like talking about a lack of diversity.

Preemptive Warning: Some of this will be wrong. Some of this won’t apply to do you. But if your immediate reaction as a white educator is to get your back up and decide this isn’t about you then it almost definitely is. 

Here is my list (collected with the help of twitter members cited below) of reasons…

Why white teachers don’t like talking about a lack of diversity*

*in their classrooms, schools, districts, friend groups, lives


  1. I am afraid of looking like a racist.
    • Good, you shouldn’t want to look like a racist! This is a great first step.
    • But… you know what racists do? Pretend racism doesn’t exist.  If you have never had a critical conversation about race then I’m sorry to report you are perpetuating racism. Which unfortunately makes you a racist.
    • You know what doesn’t make you a racist? Occasionally messing up these conversations and then listening and doing your best to fix and repair.
  2. I am well liked by my students and colleagues of color so I am a “good white”
    • Good, I am glad your students and colleagues like you.  Likely this means you aren’t an asshole.
    • But…Not being bad is not the same as being an ally.  It is not the same as fighting systems of oppression.
    • We should all probably let go of the idea of being a “good white” and just try not to be trash people.
  3. I am not in charge of hiring/diversity/student placement so I can’t do anything anyway
    • Good, so you recognize there is a problem somewhere in your school or district. That’s a solid first step.
    • Now, get on a committee! Most schools have hiring committees.  Get involved in placement.  Be radical and figure out how to eliminate tracking in your school.
    • But Anne, I am so busy. I refuse to believe there is something more important than equity for all students.  Make it work friends.
  4. I think I’m fair so I don’t understand why some kids would need special treatment.
    • It’s nice that you think you’re fair.  But honestly no matter how fair we feel in our classrooms how they students ended up there and where they are going after have to be our concern, too.
    • How are they treated in the hallways? What opportunities are they being presented with? Is everywhere in your school “fair”?
    • We either need to get over the idea of special treatment or really invest in it.  Every kid is different. Every kid has needs. Some of those needs come from fighting societal oppression. Find ways to help them with that. Meet the needs of your students.
  5. Cause I feel guilty
    • Good. White guilt is a fine thing. I have heaps of it.  Do something productive with it.  Learn about restorative justice.  Follow more people of color on twitter and for the love of god READ SOME BOOKS.  Here’s a list from Crystal Paul at Bustle.
  6. I’m still learning and don’t want to say the wrong thing and offend or even hurt someone or I want to do the right thing and support my students and my colleagues of color but worry that I’ll come off as disingenuous.
    • Dudes, I have said at least one wrong thing this week (probably ten).  I screw up all the time. Hear what you did wrong when some corrects you. Learn to apologize. Mean it.  Then move on and keep doing the work.  Would you let a student never do math again because they screwed it up? There are a bunch of you that could explain to me the learning theory around making mistakes.  This is the same.
    • As for seeming disingenuous, just keep doing it til people believe you.  Fighting for justice isn’t disingenuous, it’s your job.
  7. I’m worried that increasing diversity will threaten my job.
    • DUDE.  This one is rough. Maybe it will?  You should probably then become the most valuable teacher possible.  The teacher that most pushes the school in the right direction.  The teacher that serves the most kids.
  8.  I’m not racist and I’m not a person of color so I’m not the one who should be talking.
    • Good.  God job being not racist.  I’m going to believe you there.  I understand this is a tough line to walk. So I’ll give you some tips.
      • Don’t talk over or put your experience in front of people of color.  That’s a bad time to be talking.
      • Do be the person who brings it up in big groups.
      • Do be the person who pushes for change on committees or in meetings.
      • Do cite your sources when you make points.
    • Last night José pointed out we need co-conspirators and recently Shana called for accomplices, dismantlers, disrupters, margin fillers, decenter-ers, and action minded people.  Be those things.
    • If you need help deciding when to talk, ask.  Preferably ask a white ally. Don’t make the people of color do your work for you.
  9. I don’t care about the speaker’s background, I just care about their message.
    • This one was specifically about hiring people to speak at conferences.
    • First off, if you don’t think who we are is part of the message you don’t understand speakers. If you only hire white man speakers you are sending a very clear message.
    • Second, dig a little deeper and look at why you think race and gender don’t matter.  Is it because acknowledging that they do might make your accomplishments not as great? That’s hard.  I hear that.  But if you have enough merit to get to choose speakers for conferences then use your accomplishments to benefit everyone.  That’s when you are leveraging your privilege.
  10. We take shortcuts with our thinking so we think already ARE talking about a lack of diversity.
    • Y’all solved racism? RAD!
    • But actually, just like you are never done learning to teach this work is never done. Don’t let people around you pretend it is.
  11. I was just hired to teach.
    • Cool. You are part of the problem.  You are a racist.


List compiled with help from Tina, Mattie, Howie, Kathy, Ethan, Julie

CMC Central Presentation: Building Classroom Culture

Yesterday I presented at CMC Central and I told the lovely group of humans I would up load the presentation here.

Here’s the description I sent in:


It’s relationships that make our students want to perform. The quick end of class question. The deeper outside of class conversation. Research shows that students work harder for teachers that they perceive care about them and well all of us do our caring is not always evident to the students. This session gives educators a model for building positive classroom culture using a social contact, restorative justice, and circles.

First, participants will have the opportunity to build a social contract using the same process that is used with students in order to construct social norms that foster a productive learning environments.
Participants will then join in circles. Learning how to structure them including good questions to ask and how to assess the trust level in their classrooms. Mod- els will be shown on social development and curriculum circles.

The last portion will focus on restorative justice. Traditional discipline suspends relationships which leads to further behavioral problems and decreased learn- ing. It also disproportionally punishes students of color. Some simple restorative methods can lead to an outcome that repairs instead of suspends. Using restorative justice teachers will send students back to work and productive much faster than traditional discipline. We all know that students who are not in our classrooms can’t learn. Let’s get them back and learning as quickly as possible.

Here are my slides. 🙂

Let me know if you have questions. 🙂

New Year. New Goals? Same Goals? Goals.

I am not a great goal setter.  I like the idea of them but I don’t usually speak them out loud and I don’t usually follow through so it makes total sense that that I going to set some right now:

  1. Prioritize time with friends/ say yes. There was  a year when I worked at Emma when I decided that I was just going to say yes to every invitation I could reasonably do.  The past couple years I have flipped that and prioritized being alone and that’s been good for me but this year’s goal is to do more not less.
  2. Keep a to do list/ journal. I did this for a chunk of last year and felt super on top of my life. I am going to try again.  I am also interested in being able to look back and see what I did this year.
  3. Be a better ally.  I want to show up more and do more.  This includes more phone calls to congress and house members. Open to other suggestions.
  4. Really listen. To my friends, to my students, to my family. I’m going to put down my phone more.
  5. Eat like an adult. I like candy more than you.  I can almost guarantee it.  I did a good job of eating well for like two months last year but I need to start again with this school year.
  6. Figure out how money works.  I’ve talked about this here before but I really have no idea how to budget or save or not just throw away money. I am seriously considering hiring a personal finance person to help me.
  7. Keep climbing 3-4 times a week.  It makes me happy and stable. Maybe take up running again? Even the idea seems terrible.
  8. Date. I did a pretty good job this summer but if we’re being honest I need to really try if this is a thing I want in my life and I do.  I want a partner and kids and all that. So here it is. I am going to try.
  9. School Goals:
    1. Talk less, listen more. (I just want to be Burr apparently) But really I want to make sure I am taking time to hear the kids and my colleagues.
    2. See more teaching.  Get out of my classroom during my prep and see other people teach.

Alright, that’s it.  Those are my goals.  They are not small. I am putting an alert in my calendar for two months from now (October 7) to update you on how I’m doing.  Also, do you have goals for this year?  Wanna share?

Do Better. A response to Dan Meyer’s Let’s Retire the #MTBoS

Update August 1: I feel pretty strongly about the content of this post but it’s goal was not to throw Dan under a bus it was supposed to be a wake up call. A harsh reminder of the fact that while I know he personally itches at the idea of being a leader or of this group at all having a leader at all he is it by default. By blogging first, by blogging often, by providing real classroom stuff before the rest of us, by doing a tedTalk.  While I do use the f-word in this post and it’s pretty common in my vernacular (please don’t try to see how many times I have used it here, its a lot) I understand that that came off as at least not helpful and at most pretty mean.  I also know that twitter has rallied around this post and some of that contributed to the bus throwing.
This is all to say Dan, I’m sorry. I was harsh. I hurt you and I damaged a long standing relationship. It was not my intention but as that impact matters more.


This is a response to this post by Dan Meyer.

Part 1

Let’s start here. Actually let’s start before here.  Is that a thing? Before here.  Let’s start with me addressing my own privilege in this community.  I have been a member of the online math teacher community since (according to my twitter) 2010.  I have about a thousand followers many of whom of are also early adopters of the twitter and blogging.  This platform reaches between one and two thousand people and some posts I have written are regularly read in teacher credentialing programs.  This is not to brag.  This is just to say, I understand my privilege in this community and my power (which is not a ton but definitely some).

Now let’s talk about Dan’s.  Seven years ago Dan wrote a post about me that actually got me a job interview. It is a lovely post. Dan has about 57 thousand followers on twitter.  For reference Josh tweeted this:

While many of us consider Sam and Kate as influencers in the math teacher community each of them have about six thousand followers to Dan’s 57. That is not including his blog or the training he does for districts. In every interview panel I have every sat in for a math teacher job someone has mentioned Dan and his work.  That is to say Dan has a lot of privilege and power within this community.

For those tl;dr friends: I have some status. Dan has all of it.

Part 2

Okay, Let’s go back to this

I’m sorry but my first response to that was actually outloud, “Well, fuck you.”

But my second response is this timeline:

  • In 2012 PCMI participants got an email sending them to the weebly and Tina tweeted requesting people welcome those newbies.
  • In June of 2013 there was State of the MTBoS global math discussion.
  • 2013 was the year of PD where a bunch of people (I think Dan included) made presentations for their departments on how get involved.
  • At 2013 TMC and 2016 TMC there were “breaking out of ourselves” sessions to discuss expanding the MTBoS
  • October 2013 was the first Explore MTBoS initiative on the explore site (exploremtbos.wordpress.com) but there had been one before that hosted on our blogs
  • We’ve done lots of impromptu blogging initiatives to help people gain momentum
  • April 2015 was the first NCTM booth and the April 2015 was also Explore MTBoS timed to go with the booth
  • January 2016 there was another Explore MTBoS initiative
  • January 2017 there was another ExploreMTBoS initiative

I guess it’s not obvious that we are trying to expand out community?  That we are attempting to make a blatantly laid out the path to gaining social capital in the community.

And again: tl;dr there are countless efforts to make the community more inclusive and intuitive happening all the time and a great number of people invested in this work (for no money or personal gain).

Part 3

Now here’s where I get real. I don’t really care what hashtag you tweet under. #MTBoS #iteachmath #statschat #elemmath. I don’t do a good job of following any of those. Carl could tell you which get used the most but it really doesn’t effect me.  I mostly follow people I know and people who tweet at me and any real good retweets.  Here at the 600 word count is where my problem with this whole post is:


You saw a problem and decided to fix it without asking or looking first.  You didn’t consider your privilege or status as the most prominent member of our community.

Problem: People feel like the MTBoS is an exclusive club. Tweets are going unanswered.

Solution: NEW HASHTAG!!!!

This is not a solution. This is also not how to community organize.  The post you wrote hurt a lot of very active members of this community.  It made unfair assumptions (that we don’t already talk about this and worry about this all the time).  It’s tone was dismissive of the seriousness of this problem.

I am going to reference this article on how to use your privilege to structure this note:

  1. Listen and Trust. Ask first if the work is already being done.  When someone says it is, believe them.
  2. Not every conversation needs your voice…
  3. But some do. You have a large platform and you are trying to do the work get involved, awesome! This community is made up of people doing this work for free.
  4. Signal Boost. This is what should have happened in the first place.  How about a post about all the work already being done?
  5. Accept when you’re wrong and try to learn from it. There were several people on twitter calling you out on this and instead you continued to argue. In fact even in your rewording of the post you don’t ever apologize. 
  6. Don’t expect thank yous.
  7. Do something. Host an explore the MTBoS.  Have a link on your blog. Ask Tina, Lisa, Sam, or Julie what they most want amplified. 

tl;dr I am pissed not so much about the hashtag itself but actually Dan’s use of privilege and disregard for the work already being done.

Part 4

Saturday, I tweeted I was annoyed with Dan’s post and Dan invited me to take it offline:

Dan, I didn’t do that. I wrote this instead. It is long and unwieldy and not nearly as angry as it would have been had I have wrote it Saturday.  You hurt my friends and didn’t apologize.  You were condescending to me and didn’t recognize your own power.  This post may generate some some conversations and there will be people who disagree me.  I’m happy to chat about that here or on twitter.  I am giving this conversation 3 days and then I’m out.  Because as Auntie Maxine says, “I’m reclaiming my time.”

tl;dr It’s short just read it.



p.s. I read a great article about how she loves when millennials call her Auntie Maxine and I am so in.


P.P.S.  Some other posts on this topic: Fawn, Kate, Grace

Selfie February or #selfieshellout

Four years ago I started a tradition of taking a selfie everyday for the month of February.   If was silly fun and I got to see the faces of people I don’t see everyday and I love.

Weirdly the world is not the same as it was four years ago so I am slightly adjusting this year. Here’s the plan:

  • Everyday for the month of February I will post a selfie
  • Everyday for the month of February I will donate a small amount of money (less than 5 dollars) to a different charity or organization that is fighting the fight.
  • I will link to that organization both in my post (I am making my instagram public for this but will also tweet and facebook)

Here’s what I need from you:

  • Join me! I am posting the first one today.  Start tomorrow and use my same organization (you definitely can chose your own)
  • Send me organizations that need support to continue their fight.  This is a big one.  I am not going to perfectly vet every single one so if you have one you love send it my way. (comment here, tweet at me, comment on facebook)
  • If you don’t agree with an org I donate to choose your own!
  • Hashtag all your posts #selfieshellout


If you donate $2 a day this is a $56 commitment.  My plan is to cut out fast food by myself this month which should more than cover this.  Maybe you do one week or maybe you do $10 a day. I don’t know your life.

I am starting with my local NPR station KPBS. But here’s an easy way to find yours.


So with out further ado. #selfieshellout


Today I am donating to KPBS in order to help protect the first amendment and also because I love NPR Politics Podcast and Pop Culture Happy Hour. #Selfieshellout

Things I am doing.


  1. Staying informed. (It’s hard because it’s overwhelming but not knowing is not an option)
  2. Spending time with women friends.
  3. Donating small amounts of money regularly.
  4. Supporting independent artists and big companies that are making the right choices.
  5. Teaching the children.
  6. Prioritizing cleaning, showering, and exercising. Gotta be fit to #resist.
  7. Telling my loved ones that I love them.
  8. Sending more real mail.
  9. Trying to save money possibly using ellevest, has anyone used them?
  10. Saying yes and showing up for as many things as I can.
  11. Finding the pieces of joy in my days.

Happy FriYay 😆#TheRevolutionWillHaveJoy

A photo posted by Radical Monarchs (@radicalmonarchs) on Jan 27, 2017 at 4:29pm PST


When the exhaustion is real.

It’s been almost a month since Ivanka’s Dad became our president-elect. (I stand with the podcast Call Your Girlfriend in refusing to say his name)  Maybe for some of you it was a win but for me it was a devastation.

I was, without a doubt, mean to the children for two weeks.  I found myself yelling for no reason.  I had no patience.  I cried over everything and nothing.

here is a sampling of my tweets:


I cried, a lot. In fact I am crying now writing this. I am still tired. I am still emotionally wrecked.  It’s only been a month and I feel like I am supposed to be better. And I am.  I am better.  This job is too hard to do when you are empty.  It is too hard to do when your heart it broken.  It is impossible to do with any sort of quality without a deep well of empathy and patience.

So I sit here with tears that are still coming a little bit too fast and empathy that is still coming a little bit too slow and say to you, If you’re ready to rebuild those things and teach the children again, I’m trying.  I will talk with you about self care. I will laugh at your stories and I will cry about the realities of the next four years. I am lucky enough to be in a place where moving out of the sad and empty phase is possible and if you want someone to do that with, I’m here. Also, if you need someone to sit with you cause you can’t I can do that, too.

With all the love,



From the mouths of…

My Children. Present without comment but with permission.

“Today I am feel really mad at all the people adults in the nation who decided to vote for someone that thinks “Making America Great Again” is done by eliminating people from this nation who want a better life.”

“We all obviously nervous. For whats gonna happen. if were gonna stay or not. Its also scary we are all being label once again.”

“I WANT MY RIGHTS.  idk what I am trying to say. I am just upset.”

“The reason I am sad is because Trump was elected but I guess it’s okay until January thats when the truble comes and the rest I don’t want to say because it’s too emotinal for me.”

” I have two older sisters who were not born here but have DACA. Donald Trump said he would take DACA away.”

“I’m scared Trump will really deport all illegal immigrants back to Mexico. If this is true, I’m not ready to see a lot of my family gone.”

“I dreamt Clinton won somehow and everything was okay.”

“He doesn’t make the laws. He can’t force people out right of the bat.”

“Why American? Well, he’s 70, maybe he’ll keel over before too long.”

“It seems that I’m not as valuable a person as I thought I was.”

“I’m worried about Trump. I’m excited about Friday.”

“I feel really pissed off about the election.”

“Today I am worried that eventually my mom and dad are in trouble and that they will eventually be taken back to Mexico or jail for being here in California.”